Other people can make you unhappy but the only person that can make you HAPPY is YOU!!!!
You can think other people are responsible for how you feel but at the end of the day it is you who decides what to do and how to feel about anything in life!
It all starts with being happy with yourself, living a fulfilling life according to your own values, making life worthwhile for yourself!
That is what truly happy people do: they do stuff they think are worth doing, that are bringing them closer to what they believe in, what they stand for…and so automatically what makes them happy.
They are the ones responsible for their happiness! They decide what is important to them and they act accordingly. And happy people attract happy people, happy things, positive energy,…
Be the energy you want to attract!
And of course your friends and your loved ones give you love, friendship, .. you spend great times together, you are happy together but it is you who decides to BE HAPPY!!!
They can love you all they want but if you think you do not deserve to be loved, that you are not worthy of their friendship,…. You will never feel happy.
So wake up, kick yourself in the butt, see the good things in yourself and LOVE YOURSELF for them!!!
Only then will you be able to give and receive true love, true friendship, true caring, true everything!
It is your responsibility!! Own up to it!!
Get rid of all the stuff in your life that is not making you happy, don’t waste time thinking what other people are doing, what they are thinking, what they are achieving, stop gossiping …
You think scrolling through facebook makes you happy but it’s only camouflaging your pain of boredom, of disappointment,…and this goes for so many of the mindless things we keep doing, we keep fooling ourselves with.
“Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people” Eleanor Roosevelt
So go and create your own happy life, define your values, shape your ideas, make a plan to realize them and LIVE NOW, BE HAPPY NOW!
Wishing you an awesome weekend! And for the lucky ones a whole week of spending time with your kids, really being there with them, creating beautiful moments to cherish!
Think happy, feel happy, be happy!!!!
Katrien